First off bear in mind that When I say “We” I actually mean “I” because most guys who live in Iran do not pursue the same lifestyle as I do so they might not face similar problems with the girls they date.and this is said aside from the fact that I don’t believe in single partnership.
the first thing that comes to mind when you think of dating an Iranian girl is the problems you’re going to face dealing with her family and their attitude towards dating which in most cases is strongly negative no matter how liberal and open minded the girl herself is You have to deal with the worst type of hypocrites on planet earth when You’re dealing with her parents.
Girls in Iran start dating from the time they’re 13-15 and They become sexually active from 19-25 but their freedoms in the household are extremely limited until they live under the same roof with their parents…I’ve seen 30 year old women who live with their families to be limited as far as not being able to stay out past midnight!I know it’s sad but it’s also true….
there comes the first wave of problems as the guy who is dating that girl….Imagine how you would feel when You ask your girlfriend to drop by in the morning for some “fun” and her reply would be “Sorry honey Universities are closed tomorrow So I can’t come to your place because I can’t tell my parents that I’m going to the university”….Believe it or not I’ve heard this sentence from 4 girls in the past 2 years!and those girls who did NOT say that to me were all aged more than 25 years and lived on their own.
and now imagine there is a girl who does not have problem coming to your place in the morning because her father is at work and her mother is okay with such stuff So she drops by everyday and You get to go to the country,stay in and do all sorts of stuff with but when it comes to going out to friendly hangouts,parties or just for a cup of coffee after work She can’t go out because Daddy comes home in the afternoon and after that He’s not letting anyone leave the house!YES EVEN THE MOMMY!So Dating married women is quite futile too…..
So no matter what You do most girls you’re going to date in Iran have limits in the amount of time they can spend outside of their household and if You’re a busy person like I am, it will take a lot of efforts for both of You to set dates and meet on regular basis which makes having stable relationships extremely challenging and tiresome.
So the idea would be to have two girls around….One for your night life and another for the time You just sit bored in your home 7 O’clock in the morning thinking about “How fucking boring this country is in the morning” Especially when You’re an insomniac idiot Like me.
The second problem is about sex…Aside from girls being scared shitless of how their fathers might react when They find out their daughters are not virgins and assuming that the girl you date has been at least with one guy,which is the case most of the time Iranian girls are very weird when it comes to sex….
Because of the fact that they become sexually active very late(still much sooner than a typical Iranian boy)They’re extremely inexperienced and are at times….terrible and mediocre at best most of the times, with a few exceptions here and there being good at what they do….and what bugs me is that sometimes they suck at it not because of lack of experience but because of the tremendous amount of guilt they have because of their religious beliefs and social obligations. they feel like they’re cheating on their families and values of society…They still do it, but you can actually feel the guilt coming out of her eyes when you hear moans coming out of their mouths…..
So the solution is to have a few girls around in hopes that one out of five is actually good in bed and you can enjoy having sex with her…..
the final and the biggest problem is the level of mental maturity among Iranian girls…if You’re a guy who is used to dating let’s say European girls you’re going to be in hell when You get into dating life in Iran because even 40 year olds here are so bloody daft and childish that I cannot begin to explain!
Some 60% of them are all obsessive ,possessive, pretentious ,Juvenile ,competitive ,bitchy ,jealous and a whole lot of other shitty things….
Imagine that girlfriend you have who can’t accompany you to parties hear you say “I’m going with this other girl who is just a friend” and the best case would be that She would dump you but that rarely happens, because She will act so paranoid and stupid that You will be pushed to the point of dumping her.
and that’s just one example of all the thousands I can give you about how immature most girls are in this country….and believe me finding a girl who is mentally mature is 100 times harder than finding a girl who has liberal parents or lives on her own and is good in bed…
Now normally an Iranian guy who has lived all his life here would point out hundreds of other problems but those problems are only because of problems Iranian guys have themselves and if You’re not a bloody idiot you can bypass them quite easily….
This was a response to a criticism from a few friends and I hope I made my point clear on why I think Having one girlfriend is not do-able in Iran……
Thank you for listening to me rant about some pointless thing….
Sohrab Amirmozaffari(Solheim)








